When you’re worried about getting free and think it’s hopeless

When you’re worried about getting free and think it’s hopeless.

When you’re scared as F about urges taking over you.

When you think your life is over.

Always remember, nothing has gone wrong. 

I know it sounds like lunacy and it’s nearly impossible to believe. Believe me, 20 year old me would have fought me on this. 

It’s crazy to even think that nothing has gone wrong when all the alarm bells are ringing and it feels like your life is ruined. 

But it’s true. You will figure this out! 

You’ll find a way. 

This is especially true if you’re 25 or under. 

When you’re in your teens and a young man or woman or , your brain isn’t fully developed yet despite what everything tells us. 

Your brain is still growing EVEN if you think it’s been stunted by watching porn. 

Your brain is still growing and you are still learning. 

When you’re 30 you’ll look back at your 20’s and think Wow, I didn’t know sh*t back then? 

When you’re 40 you’ll really think you know what life is about and still look back and say, who was I?

This continues on and on as we get older and I assume it’ll keep going on until the day I die. 

Perspective is everything which is why I do mindset work, because it helps us change our perspective. 

But perspective from growing older and hopefully wiser is an amazing thing. 

Eventually you see that you’ve gotten through some incredibly hard things and made it. You survived what you thought was impossible and didn’t die. 

Life seems to kick our butts but somehow, some way we make it. 

I say this knowing that something incredibly terrible could happen to me today that rocks my entire universe and levels me. I know it could happen and if I indulge in that thought I feel fear. 

But like all faith, you learn to trust and hope and pray even that things will work out. 

It doesn’t mean you never feel fear, believe me I feel it on the regular. 

It just means you get better at feeling it. You don’t get as panic’d as you once did. 

So for all you young guys out there who think life is over, it’s not and nothing has gone wrong. 

You just haven’t figured it out yet.