Quitting porn is all about changing your beliefs!

I was reading some posts in Reddit /nofap and one person had started to look at porn then turned away, closed their browser and walked away.

His question was whether that was a relapse.

To me that’s not a relapse nor a slip nor anything bad at all.

To me that’s THE BIGGEST WIN he could possibly have!

That is a Nitty Gritty moment where he had to make the big decision,

To watch porn (i.e. what he doesn’t really want) OR

To Not watch porn (i.e. what he really wants)

To me, THAT IS A HUGE WIN!!!!

He just proved to himself that he can do this.

He can never ever say, he can’t quit porn because he just proved that he can.

Now, to continue this AWESOME work and get to FREEDOM FROM PORN!!, he’s going to have to build upon that win.

He’s going to have to have more wins, just like that one, possibly in the face of many moments where he makes the decision he doesn’t want and watches porn.

He’s gotta learn that the Wins matter so much more than the supposed “losses”.

The “losses” are just bumps in the road where the Wins are like trampolines propelling us upward to the great heights of FREEDOM FROM PORN!!!

Can you tell I’m excited? I love this stuff!

The REALLY COOL thing that is happening here, that we can’t really see and is

IMO, THE MOST IMPORTANT thing to recognize, is,

  • He is building up a belief that proves he can do this and
  • He is destroying the belief that says he can’t do this. He’s knocking it down, piece by piece!

That’s what quitting porn is all about!

It’s destroying old beliefs while creating new ones because beliefs drive all the actions in our lives.

All the things that we are, all things we have and all the things we DO or Don’t DO are a direct result of our belief systems.

SO… if you want to get free of porn, you MUST change your beliefs.

I coach men to get them free of porn.

My program is 3 months long and we meet on zoom once a week.

We are also in touch via WhatsApp because I want to support my guys in between sessions.

MOST of my guys are getting free of porn about halfway thru, about 6 weeks in!

The work we do in coaching is all about changing those belief systems that I just mentioned.

It might sound weird, it might sound theoretical but trust me, IT WORKS!!

I AM LIVING PROOF!

My life has changed RADICALLY since I quit porn via coaching.

I no longer fear urges

I no longer fear slipping

I no longer worry about porn

I no longer worry about the weekend and whether I’m going to watch porn or not

I no longer worry that my deep dark secret is going to come out

I no longer worry when someone is using my phone or computer

I no longer worry about “my browsing history”

I don’t stress over it any more AND THAT’S A HUGE RELIEF!!

My NEW DEFAULT Thought on Porn is “I don’t need it anymore” and that comes up any time I even remotely think about porn.

ITS FREAKING AWESEOME!

IF you want this same freedom,

IF you are ready for a change

Come talk to me….use this link to book a session with me.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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